How to Write a Wedding Invitation Message
A good invitation message answers four questions in order: who is inviting, who is getting married, when and where, and what guests should do next.
How to write a wedding invitation message, step by step
A good invitation message answers four questions in this order: who is inviting, who is getting married, when and where, and what the guest should do next. Write those four parts, add one line of warmth, and you're done. Below is the method, a fill-in template, and complete examples you can copy.
The five-part structure
- The opening. A blessing, or a line naming the hosts. "With the blessings of our elders" or "Mr and Mrs Sharma".
- The invitation. The verb that asks: "request the honour of your presence", "invite you to celebrate".
- The couple. Full names, and on formal cards, the parents of each.
- The details. Day, date, time, venue and city. In a digital invite, each function gets its own section.
- The close. A warm line and how to RSVP.
Fill-in templates
Copy the one that matches your tone and fill in the brackets.
- Formal: With the blessings of our elders, Mr and Mrs [Surname] request the honour of your presence at the wedding of their daughter [Bride] with [Groom], son of Mr and Mrs [Surname], on [Day], [Date] at [Time], [Venue], [City]. Kindly RSVP by [Date].
- Formal modern: Together with their families, [Bride] and [Groom] invite you to celebrate their wedding on [Date] at [Venue], [City]. Your presence will make our day complete.
- Warm: We're getting married! [Bride] and [Groom] would love you to celebrate with us on [Date] in [City]. All the details are in the invite.
- WhatsApp: Hi [Name], [Bride] and [Groom]'s wedding is on [Date] in [City]. We'd love you there. Invite with every function and map: [link]
- Bilingual: शुभ विवाह। [Bride] weds [Groom], [Day], [Date], [Venue], [City]. आपकी उपस्थिति प्रार्थनीय है।
Opening lines to choose from
- With the blessings of Lord Ganesha and our elders,
- Together with their families,
- With joy in our hearts,
- Two families, one celebration,
- Mr and Mrs [Surname] cordially invite you
Closing lines to choose from
- Your presence will make our celebration complete.
- We look forward to celebrating with you.
- Kindly RSVP by [Date] using the button in this invite.
- Your blessings are the only gift we wish for.
Four tones, and when to use each
- Formal: full family names and traditional phrasing. For printed cards, elders and religious ceremonies.
- Formal modern: the couple at the centre, families named warmly. The most popular choice today.
- Warm: written as if the couple is speaking to friends. For friends, cousins and relaxed weddings.
- Short WhatsApp: the name, the date, the city and the link. For sending to many guests personally.
Writing for the guest, not the card
Guests scan for three things first: the date, the city and the venue. Never bury those in the middle of a long paragraph. Put the couple's names at the top, the details right after, and the poetic lines around them, not in front of them.
Agree the order of names with both families before you write a single draft. In Indian weddings, the order of parents' names carries meaning, and changing it late causes friction no design can fix. Once agreed, use the same order everywhere: the card, the digital invite and the venue boards.
Common mistakes
- Mixing tones. A formal opening followed by slang confuses guests. Pick one voice.
- Missing the city. Outstation guests need the city on the first screen, not just the venue name.
- No RSVP method. Say how to reply and by when, and make sure someone actually checks the replies.
- Spelling names three ways. Fix one spelling for each name and use it everywhere.
- Too long. If the message doesn't fit on one phone screen, move the function details into their own sections.
The best invitation message is the one every guest understands on the first reading.
Before you send
- Hosts' names in the order both families agreed
- The couple's names exactly as they should appear
- Date, time, venue and city for each function
- An RSVP method and date that someone monitors
- A proofread by one person from each family
Complete messages to adapt
- With the blessings of our elders, we invite you to celebrate the wedding of [Bride] and [Groom] on [Date] in [City]. Your presence will make our day complete.
- Mr and Mrs [Surname] cordially invite you to the wedding of their son [Groom] with [Bride], daughter of Mr and Mrs [Surname], on [Date] at [Venue].
- [Bride] and [Groom] are getting married! Join us on [Date] in [City] for the pheras, dinner and a lot of dancing.
- Together with our families, we invite you to our wedding on [Date]. The invite has every function and map: [link]
- शुभ विवाह। [वधू] एवं [वर] के विवाह में आप सपरिवार सादर आमंत्रित हैं। [तारीख], [स्थान]।
- Our wedding won't be the same without you. Please join us on [Date] at [Venue].
Frequently asked questions
What should a wedding invitation message include?
The hosts, the couple's names, the date, time, venue and city, and how to RSVP. Formal cards also name both sets of parents; digital invites add a section for each function with its own map.
What is the first line of a wedding invitation?
Traditional Indian invitations often open with a blessing such as "॥ श्री गणेशाय नमः ॥" or "With the blessings of our elders". Modern ones commonly start with "Together with their families".
How do I write a wedding invitation message for WhatsApp?
Start with the guest's name and one warm line, then the date and city, then the invite link. Keep it to three or four lines, and call elders as well.
How long should the message be?
Short enough to read on one phone screen. Keep the opening message brief and put the details of each function in its own section.
Related reading
- Wedding Invitation Wording: Examples for Every Function
- Wedding Invitation Messages from the Bride and Groom
- Short and Elegant Wedding Invitation Messages
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